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Vitamin D and Nursing

2/1/2026

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Why is Vitamin D important for nursing?
​Your demand for Vitamin D does not end at delivery; in fact, requirements are even higher during breastfeeding than they are during pregnancy. Maintaining adequate levels is crucial for several reasons:
  • Impact on Baby’s Health: A mother’s Vitamin D levels directly affect the baby's levels because the nutrient is passed via the placenta during pregnancy and through breast milk after birth.
  • Preventing Deficiency: Chronic deficiency in infants can lead to rickets, a softening of bone tissue that causes skeletal deformities like bowlegs, and can even cause dental enamel defects that lead to cavities later in childhood.
  • Long-Term Protection: Adequate Vitamin D intake early in life is linked to a lower risk of autoimmune diseases, such as Type 1 diabetes, and may even protect against high blood pressure and arterial stiffness in children.

Why is breastmilk frequently low in Vitamin D?
Vitamin D deficiency is a global epidemic, affecting up to 95% of pregnant and lactating women in some regions. Because most mothers have insufficient levels, their breast milk does not naturally contain enough Vitamin D to meet an infant's needs.

The key to Vitamin D transfer is the specific form that moves into breast milk. Research indicates that  Vitamin D3 (cholecalciferol)—the "parent" form found in supplements and produced by the sun—is the form that transfers through breast milk, rather than the major circulating storage form (25-hydroxyvitamin D). Because Vitamin D3 has a short half-life in the blood, consistent daily intake via sun or supplements is more important for a nursing baby than the mother's overall blood storage levels.


How much Vitamin D does Mom and baby need?
There is a significant gap between official guidelines and current research for lactating women:
  • Official Recommendations: The standard RDA is 600 IU per day for lactating women. Additionally, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that breastfed infants receive 400 IU of oral Vitamin D drops daily.
  • Latest research: Research has shown that high-dose maternal supplementation can be an effective alternative to giving the baby drops. Studies show that a maternal dose of 4,000 to 6,400 IU of Vitamin D3 daily is safe and provides enough Vitamin D for Mom and enough in breast milk for baby.
  • Higher dose safety: Randomized controlled trials using 4,000 IU daily have observed no adverse events or safety concerns, such as high blood calcium associated with the formation of kidney stones.

Ways to get enough Vitamin D
  • Sun Exposure: The primary natural source is sunlight, but this is limited by latitude, living north of the 37th parallel (which Kansas is) does not have enough exposure in the winter and spring for your skin to produce adequate Vitamin D. Melanin (darker skin requires up to 6x more sun exposure), and sunscreen use (SPF 30 blocks 95-98% of production) also block or reduce production of Vitamin D through the skin.
  • Supplement with D3: Choose Vitamin D3 over D2, as it is more effective at sustaining blood levels.
  • Nutrient Synergy: Vitamin D works best when taken with fatty foods and synergistic nutrients like Magnesium, Vitamin K2, and Vitamin A.​

Think of Vitamin D as the "master contractor" of a construction site. While you provide the bricks (calcium) and wood (phosphorus) to build your baby’s growing body, the master contractor is required to tell the workers where to put those materials to ensure the structure is sound. Without enough contractor presence (daily D3), the "supplies" in your milk cannot be used effectively by your baby.

Sources:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7905986/
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/161618
https://nutritionsource.hsph.harvard.edu/vitamin-d/
​https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/expert-answers/vitamin-d-deficiency/faq-20058397
https://lilynicholsrdn.com/vitamin-d-pregnancy/



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Six Weeks

11/1/2025

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There is a prevalent misconception that postpartum recovery concludes neatly at the six-week checkup. Six weeks has been the standard for decades for medical care, based on tradition and opinion instead of evidence. The reasons for this include that the six week postpartum check-up has been largely agreed up by providers as the point where they give medical clearance to return to normal activity. And of course health insurance typically limits covered postpartum care to six weeks. 

However, current evidence clearly demonstrates that recovery after childbirth is often underestimated and extends well beyond this traditional six-week expectation.

Postpartum recovery should be viewed as more than just physical recovery, it should include mental and functional as well. When assessing recovery in this way, research indicates that recovery is significantly longer than six weeks. A cross-sectional study found that the average time to full recovery across all areas was approximately 15.0 weeks.. Notably, 42.5% of participants reported not feeling fully recovered in all areas by the 3- to 6-month postpartum period, which means a large number of participants needed longer than 6 months for recovery.
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Recovering from childbirth is very individualized. There are many factors that can influence recovery such as maternal age, how healthy Mom was going into birth, nutrition, sleep and rest after birth, if there were complications such as high blood loss, or cesarean delivery just to list a few. There is no set timeline for recovery, but the evidence shows it’s much longer than 6 weeks. So give yourself time, and ignore anyone who tells you when you should be recovered.

Sources:
https://www.ejog.org/action/showPdf?pii=S0301-2115%2825%2900952-2
https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/pregnancys-lasting-toll
https://www.thelancet.com/action/showPdf?pii=S2214-109X%2823%2900454-0
https://www.thelancet.com/action/showPdf?pii=S2589-5370%2823%2900441-8
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9528725/

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Enjoying the Last Days of Pregnancy

10/1/2024

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Approaching your estimated due date, or going past it can be super stressful. It can be challenging not knowing when you will meet your baby. Concerned friends, family, and even total strangers commenting, asking questions, sharing birth stories and more can add to the stress. 

The number one suggestion I have to reduce stress and let families enjoy the last days of pregnancy is do not share the estimated due date. Just don't tell anyone, if you feel you need to share, then shift it two weeks farther out, or say something like baby will be here sometime in May or June. Due dates are wrong 95% of the time so why would someone count on it!

If no one knows your actual due date, you will save yourself the headache of having to deal with questions about what's wrong, when you're going to be induced and hearing "horror" stories 2nd and 3rd hand. You won't have people come to your home to ask if baby has been born (yes that really happens!). You won't have to deal with inquiries becoming more frequent as your due date draws near, and then passes. You will keep your stress levels low which will benefit both you and your baby.

This is the perfect time to savor those last few days just as you are before baby comes. You have the opportunity to create some lasting memories with friends and family. Be present in the moment with family, friends and yourself.  Babies bring change whether this is the first baby or the tenth baby.

Some suggestions are: 
  • Planning some fun things to do in the local area as the due date approaches.
  • Having a stack of good books to read as you wait.
  • Having a list of movies to watch.
  • Starting a new hobby or project.
  • Going for walks, doing yoga or some other forms of exercise to reduce stress.
  • Get a manicure and/or pedicure.
  • Check into a day spa, or plan an at home spa day to pamper yoursellf.
  • Try out some new recipes, and make extra to freeze for postpartum meals.
  • Have a meal at a restaurant you've been wanting to try.
  • Have a board game night with friends or family.
Due dates may come and go, but no one stays pregnant forever. The last few days or weeks of pregnancy can really become a mind over matter sort of thing. I hope the suggestions I shared are helpful and let you savor the final bit of pregnancy.

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Benefits of Abdominal Support

9/15/2024

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I am all for making life easier, and helping Mom feel more comfortable in the postpartum period. Using an abdominal support band, postpartum girdle or doing some form of belly binding in the postpartum period can be helpful.

After birth, levels of the hormone relaxin are gradually declining. Relaxin acts on joints, ligaments and muscles to relax them for birth. The effects of relaxin linger after birth so joints, including in the pelvis are looser. Having some support can help make moving easier.

Some Moms experience blood pressure changes when they shift from sitting to standing in the days after birth. Before birth, organs are compressed and slightly shifted due to the space required for baby. In postpartum, organs are moving back into place, and there is lots of space right after birth for everything to begin shifting back to pre-pregnancy condition. This sudden change can cause blood pressure to drop when changing positions and may cause Mom to feel dizzy. Abdominal support can help reduce blood pressure changes.

Stomach muscles can separate during pregnancy. This is known as diastasis recti. Abdominal binding can help start bringing the muscles together, providing stability when you are moving around, and helping with reversing diastasis recti. 

There are many options for abdominal support. You can buy a support band or postpartum girdle online. You can work with someone who does Bekung belly binding. You can get a few yards of cotton fabric and wrap it around your hips and abdomen. You might want to have one or two abdominal support options ready to try out to decide which one works best for you.

Wearing an abdominal support band or doing belly binding are an easy, no risk way to help with recovery.
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Under Pressure

9/1/2024

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People tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves. Pressure to live up to the expectations of others.  Pressure to perform at a certain level. Pressure to maintain a certain standard. Pressure to keep things the way they have always been.  Pressure to be everything to everyone in their life. Society today seems to be a pressure cooker.

If you are a Mom, you are already under pressure. You have children, and the job of being a parent is demanding in and of itself. Not to mention the pressure to be the perfect parent, to have the perfect job, to have perfectly behaved kids, to have the perfectly clean house, to create Pinterest worthy snacks and meals.....the list goes on. Parents can get into a comparison game and decide they are coming up short so they should do more, or do things better.  

All this pressure, whether real, or perceived, is a recipe for disaster. Postpartum exhaustion leading to postpartum depression is a very real possibility while Moms are trying to be the perfect parent to older siblings, while they strive to make sure nothing changes in the older sibling's life due to the birth of the newest baby. Change is a constant, adding a new family member will change the lives of other family members, and honestly that's a good thing. It can help siblings learn to be more patient, or to be more helpful and it can lead to deep connections with a new baby.

Trying to be the perfect parent, trying to keep a spotless house, trying to maintain what life was before birth, trying to be "all that and a bag of chips" is going to wear you out!  All this applies to Dad too! Please stop it!

After birth, the focus should be on resting, recovering and feeding your baby. That's it! Please stop adding to that short list. Please stop trying to live up to expectations that don't reflect the fact that you just had a baby. Please focus on your baby and your recovery and ignore what doesn't contribute to those things.






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    Gail is a Certified Professional Midwife serving Manhattan, Junction City, Fort Riley and other areas in Kansas.  


    When Gail is not occupied with birth work, she enjoys reading, quilting, baking, riding her motorcycle and spending time with family.
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